Upcoming Workshops and Retreats

2026 dates
Piha Couples Workshop
Limited spots
18 and 19 April 2026 · North Piha Surf Club
Whangarei Couples Workshop
Limited spots
20 and 21 June 2026 · Whangarei Cruising Club
Workshop for Individuals
Limited spots
25 and 26 July 2026 · Blockhouse Bay Yacht Club
Bali Couples Retreat
Limited spots
18 to 23 August 2026 · Bali
Berlin Couples Workshop
Limited spots
19 and 20 September 2026 · Berlin
Ponsonby Couples Workshop
Limited spots
17 and 18 October 2026 · Ponsonby
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Relationship Work 

Relationships can be tough - and very painful!

We might have the fantasy of everlasting love, the amazing connection with our soul mate, but often the reality looks so different...

Do you and your partner feel like two ships passing in the night?

Do you argue about the same old stuff, and feel like you're living with a roommate instead of a lover? Do you feel disconnected? Has one (or both) of you started to feel that this might not be the right relationship for you any longer?

Maybe the kids have become more important than your relationship, and you can't even remember when you had fun and a good laugh together?

Or maybe, your relationship has become entirely transactional, you are functioning as parents, but the spark is definitely missing...

Maybe one of you has had an affair or is thinking about having one, or your sexual life has become non-existent and you have started to wonder if the grass is greener somewhere else...

 

There are so many reasons a relationship can feel unsatisfying.

 

On average, couples seek help seven years after their issues started! The longer you wait, the bigger the mess!

But it is never too late to get back to a fulfilling, functional and love-filled relationship. 

 

The main thing is to get started.

 

Within our first session, I can help you turn your agony into hope, and create a solid plan of action going forward.

 

It is important to seek out a counsellor or coach that specialises in couples counselling:

You would not ask your GP to perform open heart surgery on you, and you don't want to let a general counsellor work with your marriage or relationship. 

I am here to help you and your relationship.

 

I am a relationship coach, counsellor and therapist, with over twenty-five years of experience specialising in the field of relationships and communication. I have trained and successfully counselled hundreds of couples and I am also a clinical supervisor for other counsellors, coaches and therapists. 

With my guidance, you can reignite the passion in your relationship and create a strong, fulfilling connection with your partner. Don't wait any longer to start your journey towards a happier, healthier, emotionally and physically connected relationship. 

I’ve got your back, let's do this! 

Stefanie Bullock, MNZAC

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My Story

I am passionate about my work with couples! Here is why:

My first marriage broke down after an experience of some very poor couples counselling.

I was devastated. I felt I had done everything in my power, and yet, I was standing in the front of a  pile of rubble.

Worse yet, I had three small children by my side.

After a painful period of agony, I went through a divorce...

As devastating as these years might have been, it motivated me to do something with my experience.

I wanted to ensure that other couples would find better support, better counselling, in fact I was aiming for a high quality support, that would make a lasting and significant difference for the couples I was going to be working with!

This motivated me to train again! I trained again - in a variety of couples therapy modalities.

 

The strategies I am teaching, I use at home in my own life as well.
                                    
Because - THEY WORK! 

Contact

Contact me today to start your relationship journey.

Connect with me!

+64 22 070 01 04

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