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Couples Counselling and Relationship Workshops in Auckland

Helping NZ couples and individuals build stronger communication, deeper connection, and lasting relational change.

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Upcoming Piha Workshop | 18 - 19 April | Limited Spaces

Real Support for Real Relationships

If you are searching for couples counselling in Auckland, chances are something in your relationship no longer feels steady or workable.

You may be stuck in the same arguments. You may feel distant. You may still care deeply but struggle to communicate without tension.

I work with couples and individuals who want more than surface level conversations. My approach is structured, practical, and grounded in the internationally recognised Imago framework. You will learn how to speak, listen, and respond differently so that change continues long after our sessions end.

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Kia Ora!

I'm Stefanie,

I have spent more than twenty five years working with individuals and couples in New Zealand and internationally. As a Certified International Imago Relationship Therapist and Gottman Couples Therapist, I bring structured, evidence informed relationship work into every session, workshop, and retreat.

 

I am a Full Member of the New Zealand Association of Counsellors, an Accredited Counsellor and Family Therapist, and an Accredited Clinical Supervisor. My work is grounded in professional standards, clarity, and a deep respect for the complexity of long term relationships.

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Ways to Work With Me

Different relationships require different levels of support. Some couples want ongoing guidance. Others prefer a focused intensive experience. Some individuals want to understand their relational patterns before entering a new partnership.

 

You can choose the format that fits your situation.

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Couples Counselling

Private sessions online or in person designed to help you understand recurring patterns, improve communication, and rebuild emotional safety.

 

We move at a pace that suits you, with structure and clear tools you can continue using at home

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Couples Workshops

Structured weekend intensives that provide focused learning in a contained setting.

These workshops often feel like several therapy sessions in one weekend and are ideal for couples who want momentum without long term commitment.

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Couples Retreats

Immersive experiences in Bali that offer uninterrupted time away from daily pressures.

 

Retreats allow deeper insight, sustained practice, and meaningful reconnection.

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Workshops for People In-between Relationships

For those who are single or between relationships and want to understand the patterns they bring into intimacy.

Develop communication skills, self awareness, and clarity before choosing again.

What Couples Say

These reflections come from couples who have worked with me in structured relationship programmes and therapeutic settings.

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Who This Work Is For

This work supports couples who are steady but stuck, couples who feel fragile or on the brink, and couples who simply want to strengthen what they already value.

It also supports individuals who want to grow their relational capacity before entering a new partnership.

You do not need to be in crisis to benefit. And if you are in crisis, there is still space for structured support.

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Advanced Certified Imago Relationship Therapist

Formally trained in the Imago Dialogue process, helping couples move from conflict to conscious connection.

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Gottman Couples Therapy

Evidence-based relationship therapy grounded in decades of research on what makes partnerships succeed or fail.

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Full Member of the New Zealand Association of Counsellors

Bound by a professional code of ethics, ongoing supervision, and continuing professional development to ensure safe, high-quality care.

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25+ Years Experience

Supporting individuals and couples through change, crisis, growth, and reconnection across New Zealand and internationally.

Discover the Luxury Bali Couples Retreat

Set in a private luxury villa surrounded by tropical gardens, this five-day retreat is an exclusive, immersive experience. Each couple enjoys a spacious ensuite room, shared open living spaces for guided sessions, and quiet areas to reconnect in privacy.

 

With a private pool, daily housekeeping, and complete seclusion from everyday life, you can step out of routine and into focused, supported relationship work.

 

For five days, your relationship becomes the priority.

Current Available Workshops

Upcoming opportunities to engage in structured relationship work across New Zealand and internationally.

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The Berlin Couples Workshop 

An international offering of the weekend workshop, bringing this work to Europe for couples who want practical tools and renewed connection.

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The Piha Couples Workshop 

A focused weekend in West Auckland designed to help couples communicate more clearly, understand relational patterns, and reconnect with intention.

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The Whangārei Couples Workshop 

The same structured Imago workshop offered in Northland for couples seeking depth and clarity in a quieter regional setting.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

Reaching out can feel vulnerable. That is completely normal.

Whether you are in crisis, quietly drifting apart, or simply wanting something better for your relationship, you are welcome here. You do not need to have the right words or a clear plan. We can begin with a simple conversation.

If you are unsure whether counselling, a workshop, or a retreat is right for you, I offer a free 15 minute call to help you decide.

Use the form below, send a text, or book a time to talk. I will respond personally.

Email: thecouplesshed@gmail.com
Phone: +64 22 070 01 04

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